Revisiting Kya Kehna: Acceptance and Resilience, writes Shanku Sharma

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When Kya Kehna hit theaters in 2000, it took Bollywood by storm (may not be as per box office reports), challenging societal norms and stirring debates across India. Directed by Kundan Shah and starring Preity Zinta, Saif Ali Khan, and Chandrachur Singh, this film brought to the forefront issues that were often swept under the rug in Indian society. Over two decades later, Kya Kehna remains a poignant narrative of acceptance, resilience, and the complexities of human relationships.

Kya Kehna revolves around Priya Bakshi (Preity Zinta), a vivacious young woman who, despite societal expectations, finds herself pregnant out of wedlock. The film portrays her journey as she faces ostracisation and judgement from her family, friends, and society at large. Unlike typical Bollywood romances of the era, Kya Kehna tackled the stigma associated with premarital pregnancy, single motherhood, and the expectations placed upon women.

Priya’s character is a breath of fresh air. Her determination to keep her baby and raise it despite the odds speaks volumes about her strength. Preity Zinta’s portrayal of Priya is both heart-wrenching and inspiring, capturing the essence of a woman who refuses to be subdued by societal pressure.

One of the film’s most significant achievements is its unflinching critique of societal hypocrisy. The character of Rahul (Saif Ali Khan), who abandons Priya after discovering her pregnancy, represents the double standards often prevalent in society. In contrast, Ajay (Chandrachur Singh), who stands by Priya and supports her decision, embodies the progressive values that the film advocates.

Kya Kehna forces its audience to confront uncomfortable truths. The film questions why society places the burden of morality and honor solely on women, while men often escape unscathed from the consequences of their actions. By highlighting this disparity, “Kya Kehna” serves as a powerful call for gender equality and respect for individual choices.

The emotional core of Kya Kehna lies in its exploration of familial relationships. The Bakshi family’s initial rejection and eventual acceptance of Priya’s situation mirrors the journey of many families grappling with societal expectations and personal values. The film’s heartfelt moments, such as Priya’s reconciliation with her parents and their gradual support, tug at the heartstrings and emphasize the importance of unconditional love and acceptance.

The soundtrack of Kya Kehna, composed by Rajesh Roshan, further enhances its emotional impact. Songs like “Kya Kehna” and “Aey Dil Laya Hai Bahaar” not only became chartbusters but also deepened the narrative’s emotional resonance, making the film a memorable cinematic experience.

Kya Kehna was a commercial success and received critical acclaim for its bold storytelling and strong performances. Preity Zinta’s portrayal of Priya earned her several awards and established her as a leading actress in Bollywood. More importantly, the film sparked conversations about premarital sex, single motherhood, and societal acceptance, issues that were rarely addressed in mainstream Indian cinema at the time.

Today, Kya Kehna stands as a testament to the power of cinema to challenge societal norms and inspire change. It paved the way for future films to tackle taboo subjects and advocate for progressive values. The film’s message of resilience, acceptance, and the strength of a woman’s spirit continues to resonate with audiences, making it a timeless classic.

As we revisit Kya Kehna in a contemporary context, it serves as a reminder of the progress we’ve made and the work that still needs to be done in achieving true gender equality and societal acceptance. It is a celebration of the human spirit, a tribute to those who dare to defy societal expectations, and a call to embrace love and compassion in all its forms.